During these times of uncertainty, if you happen to be married or with a signifcant other, you MUST communicate. If you were not doing it before the crisis, then you probably are not doing it now, but take this opportunity to start at least TRY.
The problem is that we who have partners are not in this crisis alone. As much as we would like to think that this happened to "poor ol me"" or that "no-one understands", this simply is not the case. Your entire group of family and friends are going through this with you, whether you like it or not.
The point is talk, discuss, communicate your feelings, your issues, and listen. Listen to your partners issues and fears. Listen to your kids concerns. Talk about this stuff because it is real. Make decisions as a team, not as the loan ranger, talk about the decisions that you are making.
This is easier said than done, particularly, if you were not communicating so well to begin with. Use this crisis as an opportunity to start fresh and to start the process of communicating and sharing with your spouse or significant other.
As one of my friends said, don't let this situation define who you are, use it to make yourself better. Use this situation to improve your life and your relationships.
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